Global Goodwill Day 2018 December 25

 Global Goodwill Day.

December 25th The same day as Christmas.

This will be a parallel and alternative gathering for those who those who don't relate to traditional 

Christmas for several reasons. It's philanthropic and non religious. 

Visitors may be disillusioned , searching beyond the senseless consumption or gluttony. 

Welcome are people of any religion, non religious, or atheists. 

Also to those who are not around family, friends or relatives. 

This is a chance for people who don't fit into Christmas to come together in a social gathering. 

People can bring their own food, or just pass by to say hello. 

It's at The community hall in Kensington park on the corner of Edward Str and Day Ave.

12 noon - 4pm .

Local resident Yianni Zinonos is the founder of this idea he hopes will spread. 

Supported by Randwick councils Mayor Kathy Neilson, they have provided the space. 

Yianni's proposal mentioned his concern for local residents emotional and social well being, 

who feel left out of this Day. 

Some claim this is an "orphans Christmas "  but no Yianni explains . 

This is more for everyone else who doesn't fit in for whatever reason, but would still like 

Connect with others in a socially inclusive way on what can be an isolated day because 

It's a public holiday everything shuts down. 

For more information contact 

yianni@ihug.com.au

Why is traditional Fashion Pattern Cutting done by hand better than CAD

I have worked in clothing manufacturering  since 1984.

Studied  fashion technology in Sydney at TAFE. 

My main job for all these years has been freelance pattern making , 

assistant designer and industry consultant.  I have always made patterns by hand, 

on cardboard . I don't not do my work in CAD - that's Computer Assistant Design . 

Hand cut cardboard patterns are better for many reasons. 

 They can last for ever. I still use the blocks I created at college 35 years ago. 

Drawing  on paper is creative, artistic, intuitive, this  can be altered, developed , 

fine tuned, constantly reused . It's a 3 dimensional process.

The client can consult with me on a personal level. Developing new styles is about

Communication on a social and emotional level. It involves people skills CAD can't do. 

Computers can't consult and offer that feedback needed to do new things. 

  A hand cut pattern by scissors creates a sharp fine hard edge on the cardboard .

Patterns cut by CAD are flimsy, the cardboard is cut by a blade, 

the edge of each pattern piece looks like a knife had slashed it ,

so the patterns have rough edges . CAD patterns are mostly for global production 

or mass production because the information can be emailed overseas to be printed remotely. 

If you are making locally, and don't have your own CAD system it's cheaper to have cardboard patterns, because freelance CAD services make a lot of money each time they print out. 

Many cutters prefer to do their own markers to work around each specific fabric width or grain. 

Cutters prefer cardboard patterns so they can better economise the fabric yields. 

Cutters are the most qualified people to do this, not a computer program.

CAD printers and programs cost at least $18 000. They are expensive to maintain. 

CAD patterns loose their shape when they are scanned and digitised. 

They also loose accuracy  in the printing process. When the pen is drawing out the patterns

 on moving role of paper the patterns wobble out of shape.

 I have seen this in action by many clients who wondered by their products don't fit. 

We compared the hand cut work with the CAD on paper and found huge inconsistencies.

Maybe that explains so many bad fitting garments out there. 

Physical hand done patterns are ideal for local manufacturering. 

When  a client pays me to make patterns, they are a physical product that I hand over, 

they belong to to client. 

Patterns done by CAD are  intellectual in nature. They can get lost in cyber space, 

always reliant on the CAD owner - operator to print it out. 

 Many Designers  prefer CAD patterns  because they assume 

anything done by a computer is better. This is not true . There are many set backs . 

A cardboard pattern can by laid directly on fabric , traced out by chalk and cut out instantly . 

CAD patterns have to be printed out for each use. This is expensive and unnecessary. 

Apart from my advice , it's important to ask your manufacturer what they prefer ? 

That in many cases can be the deciding factor, but this is where the trouble starts. 

If you pay me to make your patterns as a physical reusable prototype, 

that pattern belongs to you, and you are in control. 

Unfortunately most clothing sold in Australia is made overseas. I think it's as high as 95%. This means traditional skills like hand done patterns are on the decline , but the knowledge is still important. 

Nothing is something

Nothing is something, it means many things.

To accept nothing is to control our ego, yet it feels like a loss. 

No one praises nothing, we never congratulate someone who has no plans or connections.

But sometimes nothing is the best thing to be or do. 

Nothing goes against the grain of development. 

If anything nothing may be politically left, than right wing. 

Those who do nothing are called leeches on society, but that could be due to lack of opportunity.   . We see nothing as lazy, but sometimes we just need a break from 24/7.

Doing nothing is seen as giving up or giving in. 

Yet doing nothing can also be a sign of  passive rebellion, the message being - 

I don't believe in all this and I will disengage. 

Nothing is the opposite of everything, it's not filled with frantic actions, addictions, consumptions, which are not good for ourselves or the environment. 

We are so afraid of nothing, constantly harking eachother every day, to  justify our existence 

With our questions and expectations of , what are you doing, what do you have ? 

But nothing is a void of  silent empty space that's hard to face . 

Our souls sometimes need to stop and do nothing , to ponder or reflect in silence . 

To be calm we need to stop our crazy mind and think of nothing. 

Though invisible , nothing is really something because it is of deep value. 

Illness forces us to do nothing. Maybe death is the ultimate nothing ?

Nothing is not God, nor atheist. Those are something. 

We are rarely happy with nothing , but deeply empowered by being at peace with nothing .

Nothing means things we want  but don't have like succes or relationships , so this longing , this needing creates so much pain and anguish. 

Nothing is always there . 

Male Menopause.

When we hear Menopause, we think of women, but it's also a male thing too. I've been going through this  for several years. I believe male  menopause is more a physical thing, and mid life crisis is more a social condition. They are both entwined and experienced at the same time. The last thing on my mind was male menopause, it slowly crept up.  It's a condition no one anticipates or plans for. We don't deny it cause it's not acknowledged 

I'm 51 now. Looking back the first sign started 15 years ago, when my career in fashion industry was at a high. I was crazy busy , pushing myself to the maximum. My body had its limits. Until 36 I had no problems sleeping , you couldn't get me to wake up. Then the stress set in. I had problems getting to sleep and staying asleep. 

It was my body saying hey this is too much, but also that was my peak. 

At the same time my libido was struck. I had problems with getting and maintaining erections. Again due to stress my body sent a message. Looking back, if I wasn't so stressed those events would have been delayed by several years. 

As the years rolled on, I found I had less energy and strength. I used to go to the gym, do yoga, run the 4km in 30 minutes around centennial park. Those where my porn star years. 

But after 45, things changed . I simply didn't have the physical drive , my body was saying no, it said stop pushing me. My ego was saying one thing, my body had other plans. 

I was eating more due to less energy and exercising less. I became more plump, round. I was looking like a frumpy grumpy middle aged person. Welcome male menopause. 

I went from being a hot stud chased down the street to become a sacred cow that the public was shoeing away. Not nice. 

Male menopause is also connected to gravity. What goes up - our looks, stamina, energy , persistence, with time comes down or simply disappears.

It's also a welcome to mid life. I've realised fighting is not the way to go. 

When we hear the word menopause we think of frustrated middle aged women fighting the biological clock, rushing to have children at the last moment before their menstral cycle finishes. 

How about middle aged men wanting to have children ? I assumed being a man I can choose to have children naturally when ever I'm ready. I'm not physically comprimised the way females are, I will be ok.  I was wrong. This was hard to accept. 

Male menopause is all about physical limitations imposed by time and our denial to accept it. 

I went to the IVF clinic , had my sperm tested, they said it was pretty good for my age. 

The amount of people who want to have children with a guy almost 50 is greatly diminished.

Your chances are as slim as a menopausal female. 

 Why have kids with a 48 year old, when there are guys 20s or 30s instead ? 

So my dick isn't as hard, I dont cum as much, I'm not as motivated , my tits and arse are starting to sag, my waist is ballooning . My friends are on Viagra or getting facelifts, but look like plastic dummies. Others do liposuction, only to put the fat back on. I just want to retreat at home watch tv while I eat another box of biscuits. Im lazy and feel crap. Male menopause is not my friend but a partner that's here to stay. 

What's the solution? 

Stop acting like a 30 year old, and don't give up. Go slow, but keep going. 

Eliminate as much stress as possible. It's poison to health, our bodies and minds can't take it. 

At 50 we our bodies can't cope with the drug taking, smoking, drinking , bad diets, partying . 

This is our chance to start acting responsibly, with acceptance and dignity. The secret is too look like you're living it up, but to do it in a low key way. Why run a marathon if you end up having a heart attack ? Why have 5 drinks tonight when really 2 is all your body can cope with nowadays . Why eat burgers and fries when you can't loose weight ? It's about low impact sustainable living. 

If you don't have the energy to go to the gym, go for long fast paced walks instead. 

On a fashion level. It's ok to dress 10 years younger, but please stop dressing like you've stolen your sons clothes. There's nothing more embarrassing  seeing these old out of shape guys dressing like teenagers . They look like like sausages. Wearing tight kids clothes .  . When ever I see these guys I think ....they're in denial.  

Fast hard impact living is replaced by slow thoughtful sustainable actions. 

Don't give up. It's worse. I have all these male friends in their early 50s who used to be physically stunning. They had 6pak stomachs , now they look like Santa Clause. They look sad. You know that look, they've given up. They stopped making the effort now they're miserable, and won't be around for ever. 

Joy Hruby. A wonderful lady.

This story is about my experiences with Joy Hruby. 

I met Joy in 2001, I was studying film and media production. As a student needing work experience. 

community TV was a good option . Channel 31 in those days was  an  obscure channel people used to get without knowing what it was. The signal was weak or unreliable, reception was limited  to residents here and there . 

Community TV was around in Redfern since 1988. 

My dream was to be on TV. I enquired about CTV1, an underfunded grass roots set up. I had to find a program to work on that wanted me. 

Joys show " Around the world with Joy Hruby " was filmed on a Tuesday night. I remembered turning up to what was a mixed bag of odd people a cross between a pantomime and crisis centre. Being community TV means everyone was working for free, it served as a training ground for aspiring TV presenters or crew to eventually make their way into the mainstream. Until then I was doing extras work on  All Saints or Home and Away.

There was this crazy but endearing energy on the set of what was a storage space in the basement of the housing commission towers at Redfern. You couldn't get any more grass roots than this. 

I met Joy , she was this sweet wonderful lovely warm old Aussie lady from a bygone era. A tiny bit of a theatrical diva, Joy was a cross between Dame Edna and Gloria Swanson. Always calm and poised Joy spoke The Queens English in eloquent style ! 

I immediately felt liked and accepted. Joy later said when we met she wasn't sure but she gave me a go anyway. Joys attitude of giving people a go launched many careers, it also gave purpose to the idle , disadvantaged, or those like me starting out. 

There was a deep sense of community and connection between everyone, completely different people made instant friendships . 

From the beginning Joy allowed me to produce and present my own weekly 6 minute segment. 

For someone who was doing a media film course this was a huge break in humble circumstances. 

For several years I would find / organise guests  while pitching the ideas to Joy, then with her guidance interview them on the show . This was broadcast live to the local residents, that was CTV1, then put on a tape to be dropped off to channel 31 to be broadcast to the Sydney area as well. 

Joy was many things , she was the producer, director and star of her own show, but she also shared the spotlight with others. Every week she offered advice on how to present, or tips to improve  interviewing skills . This was an incubation of better things to come. For several years I cut my teeth, 

But at the same time enjoyed it. 

2002 after 9/11 was a turbulent time politically . Looking back now,  it was incredible to note that all those different independently produced shows by various radical groups , most with an agenda to push - where not censored , while at the same time there where a growing number of viewers watching  . There where anti everything shows. Anti Israel, anti establishment, anti corporate etc. there where shows that where pro anything the government objected to. So the plug was pulled. 

Community was shut down for a while, then the licence was put out to Tender. 

The new community station was TVS , that's Television Sydney, part of Sydney western universality campus based out at Penrith. TVS had new management but also involved many from the original channel 31.  Joy was on the new board . She pushed hard for me to have my own show, based on the fact I had 4 years experience on her show. The new board agreed on the condition it was to be a Greek Cooking Show !!!!  Joy had a huge influence on my life . 

Working with other students from film school we made a pilot show, which was approved by TVS, 

Then I did one 13 part series of a highly successful Greek Cooking show called "Greek Style " 

This TV series was then picked up by community TV channels in Melbourne, Brisbane , Adelaide and Perth. This was the most exciting era of my life. From the most humble beginnings I became a successful tv producer, presenter and celebrity ! 

All along Joy was supportive. Her show became a star factory, many of her presenters went on to create their own shows. This was a wonderful time for many including the grateful public who had access to real people creating independent shows, with no budget, no corporate or political interference . Joy was the proud mother hen. Her ugly ducklings became the new generation of black swans. 

In the meantime for 7 years I made lifestyle show " Yianni's City Life " a mix of cooking, interviews , fashion and events. In 2010 my show was in the best lifestyle program category in the Logies .

Joy continued to do her show in Botany, it was filmed in the garage of her tiny townhouse . As Joy grew elderly she allowed others to do more for her. There was a loyal group of presenters and crew who in the end took over. 

The only time I saw Joy angry was during the battle to stop the closure of community TV.

The enemy was the then communications minister Malcolm Turnball. He decided it was time for community TV to be online only ! 

How can it be TV if its not on TV ? Unfortunately the spectrum was sold to Optus and Telstra for billions of dollars...this was a sad end to a great era of broadcast community free to air tv. 

Through crowd funding Joy raised several thousands of $$$, this enabled her to keep producing her show for You Tube.  

Joy became frail at but was always in good spirits, deeply religious yet non judgemental. I remember once years ago mentioning how bitter some people become with time. Joys respond was "that's the easy way out " Joy kept herself busy, there where many people around her because she was this loving mother , aunt, or Grandmother figure . Joys children and their kids are equally similar. 

In the last few years Joy went into a nursing home, the first one " Sir Joseph Banks " around the corner from her home , Joy was able come home  every day for several hours . Then Joy got a spot at a very nice place at Rushcutters Bay -Elizabeth Lodge. There she had her own room with a pleasant view, the atmosphere there was happy. I visited Joy twice. About a week before Joy passed away I just had this feeling to see her. I popped in at lunch time, in the dining room , we sat together and ate a meal.  

Mentally Joy was in fine , we had in depth conversation, but she did look weak. Joy was planning her 90th birthday for Saturday July 1st 2017. 

Joys funeral at Maroubra was the happiest one I've ever experienced. I am Greek Orthodox and our funerals are so depressing ! Yes we where sad - but the day was a true celebration of a great person who lived more than most. Joy was well prepared for her departure she pre made a video dressed as an angle talking to us from heaven. The church was packed , then we all headed to the Yarra bay sailing club near her original home at La Perouse for the most Joy-us wake ! 

Joy Hruby thanks for the great memories - see you in heaven one day ! Hugs 

Yianni Zinonos 

Sydney's future a Traffic Nightmare.

TSaturday 6th of August 2016, was the day of no turning back. It confirmed my future living Sydney is not going to be good. I spent most of the day stuck in traffic I've never seen so bad, yet I was only travelling short distances. Congestion I've never seen so bad. Despite taking multiple back street secret short cuts, everything lead to another pile up. I know this is only a taste of what's to come for all of us wanting to get from A to B. 

The first drive was from Kingsford to Newtown. When there's no traffic, it can take 15 minutes, yesterday it took 25. That wasn't so bad, but then dropping a friend from Newtown to AFL game at fox studios was another story, it took at least 40 minutes. It seemed everyone was out yesterday. You could of walked it. Every main road in both directions was one big slow moving car park. Welcome to the new normal. It took another 20 minutes to get to crown Str Surry hills to meet a friend for what turned out to be a very late lunch , then another 45 minutes to get from Surry hills back home to Kingsford near Kensington... Most of those 7 hours was spent in traffic driving short distances.

Living in Sydney is only going to get more unpleasant for all of us. Why bother leaving the house ? 

Maybe we need to do things locally, and plan only to travel, when we know there's no events on. 

This is what real estate agents won't tell you, and what we try not to think about . 

Adding to the problem is the light rail construction , which I think will be even worse when it finished.

If each Tram will really be 68 meters long, how will anyone be able to cross any Str in its path ? 

Where will we park if 700 parking spots are gone ? 

Yes everyone wants to live in Sydney , but the more apartments being built will only collectively lower

The standard of living for those already here like me !!!! 

Sydney may be set for a population boom of millions , but it won't be pleasant in many ways. 

There's very little we can do, especially with a Liberal state government hell bent on development 

With little social engagement. We will end up like London, silently packed like ants, exhausted , 

Begrudged by "growth " . Even the wealthy will suffer. 

Maybe in the future , leaving the tiny apartments we live  in will be done as avatars? We will leave

The house on a cyber level , not a physical one ? We might all be working from home online ?

Maybe when we need a doctor we will self care via you tube instructions video link ? 

Our food and meals delivered by drones ? Our social contacts will be on Skype ? 

Can't handle the traffic. 

Welcome to Cyber Sydney ! 

Gay marriage is important- but it's not for everyone.

As you may know I'm gay, out and proud. I'm happy with progress made on gay marriage lately, but most gay people I know aren't interested in getting married, though we want the legal option. 

Our laws are an international embarrassment, even lagging behind New Zealand. 

This hot issue is contested as political football everyday. Interestingly the Liberal prime minister 

Tony Abbott doesn't approve of, though his sister is Gay. As an ex liberal party branch member, I ran twice as a local government political candidate, I can tell you the Liberal Party has the greatest concentration of gay members than any other party. Hypocrasy is everywhere on this issue. 

Most of my gay friends, single or in relationships don't want to make the full legal commitment, they're just happy the way they are. Gay people have become as conservative as those they seek acceptance from. We want husbands, kids, mortgages, and suburban living while others arent kidding themselves by the white wedding while being in open relationships at the same time. This is an issue the mainstream community can't confront gay marriage seekers on because questioning the morality of minority groups is seen as a judgemental attack. Most committed gay relationships are not monogamous, that's the only way they stay together ! 

In the main stream, gay marriage will be big business for the wedding industry and divorce lawyers .  

I'm personally above wanting to walk down the isle of a church. I don't need to ask for God's acceptance, he may not exist ! Though I do believe Jesus was gay friendly.

Forcing churches or religions to accept us is like begging an abuser to be your friend, these institutions  become redundant in time anyway with their prejudice ways. 

Getting married also ties people up legally and financially in ways people are content to do without.

How many people end up in divorce ? How painful and expensive is that.

People ask if I will ever get married, but I can't even organise a date ! 

Equality is important, it will mean we can all be, for better or worse in the same box.